Attracting Love: Are You the One You're Looking For?

Have you ever heard the saying, "You attract what you are, not what you want"? Well, I recently attended a Tony Robbins training that shed some light on this, and I wanted to share it with you. It's all about the law of attraction and a fresh approach to finding love.

So, Tony suggests starting with a list of all the qualities you're looking for in a potential partner. Sounds simple, right? But here's the twist: you pick 10 "must-haves" and 10 "deal-breakers" from that list. Then, it's time for some introspection.

The Must-Haves: This is where you get real about what you need in a relationship. Do you value financial stability, a sense of humor, or a shared love for hiking? Whatever your must-haves are, write them down.

The Deal-Breakers: Now, flip the coin and list the things you absolutely cannot tolerate in a partner. Maybe it's a smoking habit, a lack of ambition, or incompatible life goals.

Comparing Yourself to Your Lists: This is where the magic happens. Take a good look at yourself in the mirror. Are you a match for the 10 things on your "must-have" list? And, just as importantly, do you align with the deal-breakers you set?

For instance, if you're seeking someone financially stable but are carrying a heavy debt load, it might be time to rethink your financial situation. Love can thrive when there's compatibility, so it's essential to make sure you're bringing to the table what you're asking for in a partner.

Finding Your Inner Match: Here's where we tie it back to personal growth. If you're not yet the person who attracts the kind of love you desire, it's an opportunity for personal transformation. Maybe it's time to work on your financial goals, personal development, or even health. Remember, it's not about changing who you are, but becoming the best version of yourself.

So, where does "opposites attract" fit in? Well, perhaps it's not about being polar opposites, but about having complementary qualities. Maybe one partner is the spontaneous adventurer, while the other is the steady, grounded planner. In this case, they complement each other perfectly. It's about finding the balance that works for you as a couple.

In my experience, this approach isn't about being a checklist robot but about being honest with yourself and realizing what truly matters in love. Love starts within, and when you embody the qualities you seek in a partner, you become a magnetic force for that special connection.

So, as you embark on your journey to find love, don't forget to take a moment of self-reflection and see if you're the match for the love you seek. After all, love is a beautiful partnership of two souls who complement each other.

Wishing you all the love and happiness on your journey, my friends.❤️